October 28th was the day I decided to leave Derrick. I waited a week to seperate all of our finances, pack my things, get a place to stay, and come up with a plan. The easy part was leaving. the hard part was leaving a human being with feelings and watching his pain. I moved out Nov 7th and havn't looked back since. I am so much happier. I am me i am being myself and if people dont like it, fuck them. I have finally gotten my life back. i am in control. who knows there this life will take me.